The Capricorn men are those who are born from December 22-January 20.
Ruling Planet: SATURN
Erogenous Zone: KNEES
Best Traits: AMBITIOUS, DRY WIT, PATIENT
Worst Traits: OPPORTUNISTIC, OVERLY CAUTIOUS, DEPRESSIVE AND DEPRESSING
The Capricorn gay man is a complex character with a simple view of the world. Success is his primary goal, and he will do whatever it takes to achieve it. Depression tends to stand in his way at times. Even though this man is funny and sharp, he can also totally lose his sense of humor when he begins to panic about his career. These panic attacks come and go in waves, but believe me, when he gets scared or blue, there is nothing much that can snap him out of it.
This man's Sun sign I see as being closely related to that of his opposite sign, Cancer. You see, Mr. Capricorn is at his best, and his happiest, when he can move on a steady forward course, but when the planets shift in ways that throw him off course, he can either rise to the occasion and go with the tide or sink into deep, dark waters of his own making. While Cancers, who are ruled by the moon, must get used to their mood swings and eventually find a way to groove with nature, Mr. Capricorn is too practical to believe in moods, feelings, or astrology. Well, he may go for the study of the stars, once he realizes he can plot a more successful course for his future by using this ancient blend of art and science.
You see, Capricorns are ruled by the stern and stoic planet, Saturn. Saturn is known as the great teacher. It teaches us all to make our own luck, not to rely on outer forces, but to develop ourselves to strategize and to develop self-discipline. Yes, Mary, that makes Saturn a heavy planet and explains why Mr. Capricorn feels the weight of the world on his shoulders.
Lucky for him, life tends to get easier as he gets older. Probably this is because he has spent years developing wisdom and learning how to work hard and go after what he wants. But, oh, those black moods of his.
As a gay man he possesses the usual outlets for tension: obsessively going to the gym and sexually compulsive behavior. For the more evolved Capricorn gay man, there are other options. First, he should admit to himself that work is his God and set up his life so that he can achieve the career status he so desperately desires. Then he can focus his energies around this singular goal. For instance, if he wants to be a lawyer, he can study law, meet men through online legal/anal-sex chat rooms (two great tastes that go together), and contribute to his community by doing some pro bono work for immigrants with HIV or for bias-crime victims. The content of his work, whether his goal is to be a lawyer, a beautician, a plumber, or an actor, should be the glue that holds the rest of his life together.
If he is so out of touch with himself that he believes, "Oh, work isn't that important to me" and "Moderate success is all I need," then I pity the poor boy. He will then take his frustrations out on his friends, family, lover, and most of all himself. Luckily, even a misguided Capricorn will eventually see the light and realize that his destiny is to be a mogul (nutty but fascinating and rich Capricorn Howard Hughes) and a role model in his chosen field (martyred hero to all activists Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.)
And if you're a Capricorn looking for queer role models, how about the bisexual bombshell Marlene Dietrich. Just be careful, boys, that on your path to success you don't follow the road of the destructive closet-queen Capricorn J. Edgar Hoover. Although, one must admit he did achieve the Capricornian goal of supreme power in his lifetime, but all you goat boys out there must ask yourself, at what cost? Then create your own road to the top that's paved with ambition and integrity.
LOVING A CAPRICORN
He has been watching you but he will not approach. It is not that he fears rejection. It is that he fears everyone finding out that he was rejected. If you make first overture, he will still be afraid. This time the fear is that his friends will find your pairing ridiculous. What if they laugh at him!
It is medically proven fact: Capricorns can die of embarrassment. This is why getting started with them is so torturous. The first conversation is polite, but noncommittal. You both feel the spark, but Mr. Goat leaves himself an out—will your next meeting be a date or hang-out session for two buddies? He keeps the question open. Capricorn is more comfortable if you are introduced by a mutual friend whom he can pump for into after you are gone. Otherwise, he will scrutinize your clothing, social manner, and conversation to figure out your income, education, and ambitions. If you seem like a man going nowhere, the pressure will be off him. If, on the other hand, you seem to be a man of substance, it all gets more complicated—and slower. When Mr. Goat is trying to begin what he hopes will be a lasting relationship, he takes his own sweet time.
ATTRACTING A CAPRICORN
Most men fall in love with looks and personality. For Capricorn, your career, status, and ambition are also part of the package. He is not necessarily looking for wealth or power, but for someone is “going somewhere.” Capricorn is most comfortable in relationship where the balance of power is uneven. Father/son, mentor/intern, and teacher/student are the models to go far. He can take either role (though he prefers the senior position). Mr. Goat is also interested in your relationship to your family. So though he does not want to hear that you live with Mom, he does want to know that Mom matters to you.
Because the words lie, for Capricorn affection cannot be stated, it must be proven. Simple actions like wiping up his spilled drink or lending him few bucks till he gets to an ATM have large significance for him. Only in time, after quite few dates, will Mr. Goat open up his heart to the possibility that you might just, if he is lucky, be halfway decent guy.
You might be interested in reading this post: MAKING LOVE WITH A CAPRICORN MAN
BREAKING UP WITH A CAPRICORN
Capricorn is more interested in making the relationship work in practical terms than in fulfilling some abstract ideal about what a relationship should be. Still, there are lines you cannot cross—even in the midst of a breakup:
1.Do not lie to Capricorn.
2.Do not blame Capricorn for your problems.
3.Be scrupulous with money.
4.Do not tell Capricorn’s secrets to the whole world.
5.Do not mock Capricorn.
He was never an easy man to love. His incessant demands for reassurance, which you knew would not be reciprocated, were piggish. However, unless you are some mean-ass Scorpio, you will never beat Capricorn at the revenge game, so do not try.
Mr. Goat hopes there is some way you can reconcile. Even if he initiated the breakup. He believes that everything in the world is in scarce supply, including love. After you walk out the door, he is not certain he will find any more. Be kind to him now, and he will remember it for long time to come.
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Sources: [echonyc.com and gay-astrology.blogspot.com]
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Write by: Robbikal Karim - Tuesday, December 31, 2013