The Aries men are those who are born from March 21 - April 20.
Ruling Planet: MARS
Erogenous Zone: HEAD, FACE
Best Traits: BRAVE, THOROUGHLY UNJADED, ENERGETIC
Worst Traits: OBLIVIOUS, DOMINATING, DANGEROUSLY IMPULSIVE
The Aries gay man is a primal force. He is strong and butch, even when he's wearing a skirt, and rarely has an indecisive moment. Even the softer ones are real "daddies" on the inside. He must feel like the master of his own destiny at all times and cannot even bear to admit to himself if he feels clueless. It's not that he's a control queen (see Capricorn for that), it's just that the darling boy loves to be in charge. He needs to be his own boss first, and then he can boss you around. And he will, honey.
Mr. Aries could be any member of the Village People... the cop, the cowboy, the construction worker. He loves to play roles, and the more obvious the better. Subtlety is not exactly one of his strong points...in fact, come to think of it, he possesses none! What he does have a lot of is heart and honesty. He really hates to lie and does it so poorly that he knows it's not even worth the effort. Although on occasion he may tell you how beautiful that cockring looks with that string of faux pearls, just to make you happy and to get you on your back that much faster.
And speaking of faster, pussycat, this man is a veritable speed machine. He goes through life at 150 miles an hour, and he is just as fast and furious in bed. (So that the fast part doesn't frustrate you, you had better get in charge of the foreplay department.)
On the outside, Mr. Aires may seem egotistical and vain, and certainly self-centered, but, you know, he is really a lot more than that. If we were all as up-front about what we want and how we feel, there would be a lot less war and misery in the world and a lot less cattiness in our own little gay ghetto. So take a lesson from him. He is who he is and does not pretend to be anyone else. He 'fesses up to his own shit, and that's what makes him braver than most. He also has high expectations of himself, and if he doesn't let you into his psyche that easily, it might be because he is still trying to prove himself to himself. He may have a big ego, but he is by no means smug.
This man is a true innocent in the world and wants to make his own way on his own terms, without having to lie, cheat, or steal to get to the top. But get to the top he will, because he is a true individual and a real risk-taker, in the best possible sense. He's a rare breed, and he knows it.
LOVING AN ARIES MAN
Not every Aries is stupid enough to actually voice his every smarmy thoughts, but he is thinking them. He considers every man he meets a potential notch on the bedpost. That is until he decides a guy is lifelong love, soul-mate material.
Even if he takes his time in coming on to you, he will not waste his efforts on small talk. If this is going anywhere, he needs to know you can stimulate his mind as well. Then he will decide whether or not to sweep you off your feet. You can be aggressive as you want in your pursuit of Aries, but in his mind you are a passive prize waiting to be won by a guy with cajoles.
ATTRACTING AN ARIES MAN
The techniques for nabbing Mr. Ram are counter-intuitive. Though it appears that Aries wants to dominate his mate, it is the struggle for dominance that excites him, not the actual achieving of it.
The unconquerable man keeps his interest longer than the one who rolls over and plays dead. But if he feels that you are a hopeless cause, he will give up and move on to the next guy. When starting relationship, Aries likes to know that the other person will be better off for having him on his side. He will overlook many character flaws in a man who is willing to take care of him.
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BREAKING-UP WITH AN ARIES MAN
Admit it. You got away with a lot. Aries usually doesn’t notice when his partner hides something from him. So you can go along being adored by Mr. Ram while secretly doing super, holding Satanic rituals in the basement, and/or planning to move to Nepal. But then you drop a chair on his foot or break a door—and he knows it is all over. Aries looks for symbols all the time. You can argue that he is reading too much into a small detail. He is. But Aries often reaches the right conclusion for the wrong reasons.
Any rupture with Aries can be repaired with well-spoken apologies---except one. If you make Aries doubt himself, there is no anger, no hurt, only silence. He has no defense but to turn his back on you and walks away.
Sources: [echonyc.com and gay-astrology.blogspot.com]
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Write by: Robbikal Karim - Tuesday, December 31, 2013