Libra men are those who are born from September 23-October 22.
Ruling Planet: VENUS
Erogenous Zone: LOWER BACK AND BUTT
Best Traits: ROMANTIC, ARTISTIC, EVEN-TEMPERED
Worst Traits: PASSIVE-AGGRESSIVE, INDECISIVE, LAZY
The Libra gay man is first and foremost a real charmer. Ruled by beauty-loving Venus, he has a naturally gentle and calming way about him. With Venus being the planet of love, he is a true romantic. Since he was a young boy, he has imagined his life to be a fairy tale... in which he will be the star fairy, of course! He is full of dreams and whimsy, which he is extremely unlikely to express in words. In fact, many Libra men come across as quite practical, cerebral, and earthbound. Believe me, it's just an act. He had to butch up as a young man to compensate for his difference as a gay man, so the bullies wouldn't destroy him, and now as a grown-up he has become quite an impressive actor. He wants more than anything to be swept off his feet by the love of his life, and to live a storybook existence, making art and leading the life of the mind, and a life of luxury. Yet if he reveals all that, it will make him incredibly vulnerable. That's why he puts up some cold, chilly walls... to protect himself. But somehow his innocence and vulnerability shine through anyway, and they are his most wonderful traits.
Mr. Libra is also a great lover or art and probably a talented artiste himself. He has a great sense of the aesthetic. If he's an evolved Libra man, you will see it in the way he decorates. Even if he lives in a most humble abode, you can bet that the color scheme is subtly perfect and the lighting a dream come true.
If he does not pursue an artistic career, chances are he will do something that uses his highly developed sense of logic. Libra is the sign that rules law, but what does that have to do with logic, really? Of course he would make a divine lawyer, judge, or journalist... anything that calls for a strong sense of objectivity.
He's a funny paradox because on the one hand he is a true peace lover and diplomat (Mahatma Gandhi was a Libra; Jimmy Carter, too), but he just loves to provoke heated arguments. Then he sits back and watches the fur fly. He will never get blood on his hands, but he is often there on the scene of the crime when a big brouhaha is taking place. He's full of contradictions and his favorite hobby is switching ideas in the middle of an argument. He's so charming, though, that most times he gets away with it.
LOVING A LIBRA MAN
He is a comfortable man. Cute enough. Smart enough. But not threatening in any way. You might think that this one is too good to be true. And you would be right.
When you first meet Libra, his deflector shields will be up and he will be practicing evasive maneuvers. He will withhold his true self until he knows what kind of man you want. Then he will emphasize those parts of his personality that you will most love.
But that may be quite a few dates away. At first meeting he is checking you out. He wants to know if you are involved (and perhaps hiding that he already has a boyfriend). He is subtly throwing out conversational topics that will give him a clue to your feelings about commitment. He is examining your clothing to get a sense of your personal style. Fail to meet his standards and you will go home alone---without his number.
ATTRACTING A LIBRA MAN
Minutes after meeting him you know that he is bringing looks, smarts, and highly developed interpersonal skills to the table. And he knows you know. So his question is: What have you got for me?
He is not a gold digger looking for a sugar daddy. It is not money he is after. He just needs to be certain that he will not be the only one supplying juice in this relationship. So your artistic sense, your humor, your ambition, you ingenuity, or something has to match and balance what he has to offer. Fairness is everything to Libra.
Libra almost always puts others first. He needs a man who will put him first. If you want him, let him know that you value him.
One last note: Look good. Libra will rule you out on the basis of aesthetics faster than for any other reason.
You might be interested in reading: MAKING LOVE WITH A LIBRA MAN
BREAKING-UP WITH A LIBRA MAN
When Libra breaks up with you, it is quick and clean. When you break up with Libra, the process is a convoluted and painfully bloody as beating a baby seal to death with a teaspoon.
The real issue with Libra that ends relationship is the need to be the perfect couple. You might begin to suspect that all the efforts Libra makes to strengthen the relationship are not for the sake of his love for you, but his love of the relationship itself.
He has defined himself as half of an “us.” And now that you are gone, he does not know who he is anymore. The man who always the calm rational one in the relationship turns into a nut job.
The only cure is for him to find a new lover or best friend to spend time with. And the speed of his recovery. When he finally finds someone else, can make your head spin.
Sources: [echonyc.com and gay-astrology.blogspot.com]
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Write by: Robbikal Karim - Wednesday, January 1, 2014