Scorpio men are those who are born from October 23-November 21.
Ruling Planets: PLUTO, MARS
Erogenous Zone: GENITALIA
Best Traits: EMOTIONAL DEPTH, CHARISMATIC, DRIVEN
Worst Traits: DOMINEERING, SECRETIVE, EXTREME MOOD SWINGS
Mr. Scorpio is intense and driven and there's no in-between with him. He knew from an early age that sex could be used as a weapon. Probably it was used on him in a threatening way. As a boy, he developed a sense of his own power and a fear of it, too. He can't help but suspect danger all around him because he knows just how dangerous people can be, especially people like him! Generally, gay male Scorpios come in two varieties: those who strive for truth and pure goodness (with a lot of pleasurable and sexy escapades thrown in, too!) and those who move primally from person to person, draining the power from others to enhance their own sense of power. In short, they are either good or evil. In the case of Mr. Scorpio I will not include my usual condition of "depending upon his other planets... " No. In this case, he's either one kind of animal or the other.
Ruled by Pluto, the violent planet of transformation, every Scorpio man will at one time or another battle with himself and come out on one side or the other. This battle will probably take place over time. This man invented the concept of "the dark journey of the soul." And it is a journey, baby. If he makes it to the good side, he's quite a force to be reckoned with, in the best possible sense. He's loyal to those he loves and fiercely protective. He's driven, funny, sexy, and confident with a strong and deep sense of intuition. If he doesn't war with himself and come out on the evolved side, he can be a most dangerous man to deal with, one who will destroy himself and others, without even fully understanding why he is compelled to be so violent.
If he has a purpose in life (and he almost certainly does), he will strive to achieve his goal, no matter how long it takes. Even the most evolved Scorpio men do have to wrestle with their dark side, though. He has a naturally addictive personality. At times he may turn to sex or drugs to soothe his hurts. But he is just as capable of purifying himself to the extreme. He may kick all his bad habits at once: from promiscuity to pot. That's just his way. So what does he do when he's not swinging on a pendulum between the forces of life and earth?
Well, he's probably having fun somewhere, enjoying some verbal repartee with a challenging naysayer and a roomful of fans. Or he may be out taking classes, working out, or researching a pet obsession. The man knows how to live life to the fullest. And he is never at a loss for energy, enthusiasm, and emotion.
LOVING A SCORPIO MAN
It is a powerful thing to meet someone who recognizes you for who you really are. His first impression is always right. Before he knows your name, he gets what you are about.
Mr. Scorpio does not understand what the big fuss over love at the first sight is all about, because that is the only kind of love he knows. The moment he saw you, he wanted you.
But do not think that will make easy for you. In fact, the more Scorpio wants you, the less he will show his feelings. Mr. Scorpio fears that if you knew the degree to which he desires you, then you would tease him and manipulate his emotions to get your way.
Besides, he knows that his air of mystery is kind of sexy.
ATTRACTING A SCORPIO MAN
Scorpio is looking for a sparring partner. Maybe that is why he likes his men a little bigger and beefier than he is. So just because Scorpio likes to be in control does not mean you should let him walk all over you. Fight back and fight hard. Then let him win.
Passivity and laziness turn Scorpio off. He can forgive a fighter for losing, but he cannot forgive a man for refusing to make an effort. Physical attraction is never enough for Mr. Scorpion. It is hard for Scorpio to give his body to a man without also giving his heart.
For all his toughness, Scorpio is afraid of you. To avoid your scorn, Scorpio proceeds slowly. Each step of the way he gives himself an out so he can end the pursuit if he needs to without embarrassing himself. Best try to follow his lead and pray you are reading the situation right.
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BREAKING-UP WITH A SCORPIO MAN
When you do a wrong to Scorpio, very soon after he will do an equal wrong to you. That is Scorpio justice---a quick, clean payback. Payback must happen for Scorpio to forgive and move on.
But the one sin Scorpio can never forgive is betrayal. But it can mean any act by which you make money, drugs, or another person a higher priority than the love you share with Scorpio. Once he knows that the relationship comes second with you, it is over. Nothing will soften his hard heart after betrayal.
Fear of abandonment haunts Scorpio, so when you leave (or betray him), you become, in a very literal sense, his worst nightmare. The only way to avoid his wrath is to not let him think of you that way. Remember that Scorpio is by instinct a healer and does not want you to be his enemy.
First, you have to accept the blame that is honestly due you.
Second, have a plan for the future.
Third, let him know the experience of losing him has changed you. You will not get him back, but he will respect you for learning your lesson. This can be the beginning of a lifelong truce with your Scorpio ex-lover.
Sources: [echonyc.com and gay-astrology.blogspot.com]
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Write by: Robbikal Karim - Wednesday, January 1, 2014