Virgo men are those who are born from August 23-September 22.
Ruling Planet: MERCURY
Erogenous Zone: STOMACH
Best Traits: THOUGHTFUL, CLEVER, INDUSTRIOUS
Worst Traits: ANAL RETENTIVE, PETTY, CHEAP
Virgo gay men are quirky and unique. It's hard to generalize about them because the substance of their souls are so different. These boys, as a whole, though, tend to be sweet, gentle, and thoughtful, with a pronounced nervous streak. Virgo is a "feminine" sign (as the other earth signs, and the water signs.) This man doesn't have to wear a wig to know that he is just a soft, sensitive creature on the inside. Most of them emphasize some part of their personality or add something to their physical appearance to make them seem more manly, but it always seems just a little forced. Which isn't to say that he lacks true masculinity. He I just so evolved in his manhood that he is a little bit closer to the female experience than most men. This is why he has so many (biologically female) girlfriends.
Mr. Virgo prays to the God of work. He loves a project! And he loves to worry... especially about the details. He is an odd combination of the earth influence and the air sign influence of Mercury (Virgo's ruling planet.) He sits on the fence between the physical world and the mental plane.
These men are incredibly bright and sensitive. He's really more of an escapee from a Victorian novel than he lets on. Even when they've been married for years, these guys still feel like humble spinsters on the inside. And humble he is. Some overcompensate, but all really believe they are "not worthy" of the grandiose things in life: you know, like love and happiness.
He is quite adept at language and is apt to work in a field that allows him to use his mind and his strong critical abilities. Virgo gay men also make good performers and editors (details, darling!) He must be happy in his work or he can't be happy in his life. He likes to feel a sense of purpose, and when he is appreciated by his boss and peers, he is at his best. The dear boy is hard on himself, and even when everyone tells him, "You're brilliant," and "Your work is incredible," he will still say, "Oh, no, it's terrible," and pick it apart in minute detail. So you could imagine what he's like when he's working for someone who is never satisfied. He becomes a martyr and is absolutely no fun to be around.
Virgo men are often typecast as "clean freaks," "workaholics," and "nuts." He may be all of the above or he may be just the opposite. This man is prone to extremes.
Always remember that his greatest asset and his biggest Achilles' heel is his critical prowess. He may criticize the feng shui of your apartment, your use of syntax, and your homemade pasta, but it is only because he wants to help. You've no doubt heard what a perfectionist he is, and it's true. He believes life is a process... the process of making the world as clean and perfect and pure as his astrological symbol... the virgin... Mary!
LOVING A VIRGO MAN
You have been under observation—even if only a few minutes. No Virgo acts in attraction alone. He needs to see exactly what you have to offer.
Mr. Virgin knows how to make the most of his young features and physical grace. He plays the perfect audience, appreciative of who you are, so there is no need to pretend you are anything you are not.
Of course his Stepford-wife niceness can alter at any moment. The second you shade the truth or unthinkingly let some inaccuracy cross your lips, he will leap down your throat to rip the offending words out of your vocal cords before the sentence is complete. Then it is back to niceness as if nothing had happened.
ATTRACTING A VIRGO MAN
Other men look for a relationship that offers security, but Virgo looks for safety. He is much more comfortable playing sugar daddy himself to man with potential, than depending on a boyfriend for his future security. But he does need to know that his man will not hurt him. And Virgo defines the word “hurt” broadly.
He wants to know that he can operate you—that you will always respond in a consistent ways. Unexpected behavior on your part is a “hurt.”
He asks for little else besides consistency. Virgo does not need the most beautiful or most sensitive man in the world, as long as he can comprehend your behavior. In fact, your flaws are in important factor in winning his love. He enjoys them because they make him feel needed. Virgo pretends to have all the answer, so you do not have to. Asking him to solve your problems for you will only strengthen the bond between you.
Honesty works with Virgo. Better be truthful, because in time he will always find the things you hide.
You might be interested in reading: MAKING LOVE WITH A VIRGO MAN
BREAKING-UP WITH A VIRGO MAN
Because he is unable to see the forest for the trees, any argument becomes a listing of grievances rather than a substantive effort to get at the root issue dividing you. If you want to salvage things, you have to get it rolling then hope Virgo climbs on board. It is best to make your expectations clear. If he knows what the ground rules are, he can decide whether or not he wants to stay. If the ground rules are unclear, he will probably leave because the relationship lacks focus.
If it comes down to a choice between fighting for you and leaving, he will always leave. The dramatic scenes are too nerve-wracking for him. To Virgo, the deception is simple self-defense, protecting him until he has the wherewithal to walks out.
Sources: [echonyc.com and gay-astrology.blogspot.com]
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