Cancer men are those who are born from June 22-July 22.
Ruling Planet: MOON
Erogenous Zone: CHEST
Best Traits: LOVING, SENSITIVE, AFFECTIONATE
Worst Traits: CLINGY, MANIPULATIVE, GUILT-INDUCING
Most gay men are looking for a daddy. But how many are looking for a mommy? A lot, actually. And that's why the Cancer man is so in demand when it comes to romance. Of course he can't always see it that way. He's earned his moody reputation, but his Norma Desmond-esque mood swings are actually quite natural, when you think about it. You see, Mr. Cancer is ruled by the moon, which changes signs approximately every two days... that's a lot quicker than any other planet out there. And with each sign change, you will see a different side of the Cancer guy. He can be a morose drunk, a brilliant artist, a savvy workaholic businessman, a hot lover, a nagging mother, and more...all in just a fortnight! Sound scary? Actually, it's not. If you are around him long enough (like, say, two months if you're very observant, and a lot more if you possess only average powers of perception), you will begin to see and understand the rhythm and mysterious but comforting predictability of his moods. Of course, you may feel as if you are dealing with a pregnant woman whose hormones are out of whack, but f you have a few mother issues of your own (you know he's got plenty), you should be rather turned on by the whole Cancer experience.
Mr. Cancer's wacky moods may at times convince you that he's emotionally unstable or, to put it mildly, completely off his rocker. In reality, he is just moody. Supermoody. But that doesn't mean he isn't incredibly steady and capable in his dealings outside the home. He is security-minded and probably has a nice, stable job. Even if he works in a traditionally unstable field such as entertainment or organized crime, he will still make his own regular and predictable routine.
If you are dating him, you will see that he immediately gravitates toward rituals: watch on old Rock Hudson or Tony Perkins movie on Wednesday nights; have sex by candlelight in the bathtub at midnight on Fridays, etc. He's sort of like an animal that way. He likes his rituals and he likes to possess the things and people he needs and desires.
Yes, he's clingy, but most people crave such clinginess. When he's holding you in his arms late at night and reassuring you that everything will be all right, you will feel just like Monty Clift did when Liz Taylor looked into his eyes and said, "Tell, Mama," in A Place in the Sun. Yes, when the sun rises and the world is less scary, you may think, "I don't need this. I can do okay on my own," but even you will know that you're fooling yourself.
Everyone should experience the crazy romantic foolishness of a Cancer at least once in his life -- especially if you're a gay man (and if you're not, why are you reading this book? Put it down and run screaming out of the room!) And if you're lucky, you'll hold on to this howling-at-the-moon-crazy Cancer queen for life.
LOVING A CANCER MAN
His voice is as soothing as warm milk. Soon you are revealing to Mr. Crab secrets that you never tell strangers.
In conversation Cancer gives very little hard data about himself, but you still feel you know him. Cancer is much more comfortable telling you anecdotes about friends and family. These stories imply much more about Cancer’s personality than he is willing to share with you directly. But what they imply only raises more questions.
As you sense him responding to your unspoken questions, you know that this mysterious man has the power to reach all those hidden corners of your heart. Will you let him?
ATTRACTING A CANCER MAN
If you remind Cancer of his old boyfriend, you are off to a good start.
Cancer is always looking for vehicle to his lost past. A boy who reminds him of some past affair has a very real (if very strange) advantage.
The clincher though is need. He wants to be needed, so your weaknesses count more with him than your strengths.
Love takes time for Mr. Crab. He is warm, but he is wary. When not pursuing his fantasy wild boy, Cancer looks for men who have settled down, have a little money, and know their direction in life. Because he is not afraid to commit, Cancer wants a man dependable enough to be worth committing to.
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BREAKING-UP WITH A CANCER MAN
The make-or-break moment comes when Mr. Crab’s attentions grow so smothering that you yell at him, “Get a life!”
Cancer discovers who he is by living through others. If you are lucky, Cancer will turn to passive-aggressive withdrawal of affection, which is designed to force you into calling it quits, thus allowing Cancer to appear the victim.
The less pleasant alternative is for Cancer to turn his anger and frustrations inward. If this happens, you will see an erosion of self-confidence as he assumes the blame for everything wrong between you.
The loneliness of breaking up is more than sad for Cancer. With time, though, he will heal and heal completely. But he will not forget the despair he went through. So if you wish to remain friends, it will take a lot of work and a lot of patience on your part. You must also accept that Mr. Crab will never trust you again.
Sources: [echonyc.com and gay-astrology.blogspot.com]
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Write by: Robbikal Karim - Wednesday, January 1, 2014